What's Your Type?

A common question that you hear from guys to girls & girls to guys all the time, & even in conversation amongst the fellas or the chicas: what's your type? What kind of person grabs your interest? What's your wifey or hubby type? But I'm gonna break down for you why its important to ask YOURSELF what your type is.

I was having an interesting convo with a woman not too long ago about relationships, love, etc & eventually she asked me the question in question: what's your type? As I always do when asked this, I paused, because I never think about it unless I'm asked & I'm a broad guy. I personally don't have an exact type, I have types. I require the same things out of all my interest as far as personality, spirituality & intelligence goes, but physical (which the word "type" usually means) usually comes down to how she's proportioned, so it can really vary (FYI bottom heavy > top heavy LOL).

1 of the reasons I have no 1, ideal physical type is because I love the female species period, & they come in so many varieties, I'd be doing myself a disservice by only being interested in 1 tiny part of the population.

Most important to me however, & hopefully a lot of other fellas, is the internal over the external. I'm young, so don't get it twisted. I'm not saying I go for grandmas or women w/ handicaps, & I'm not advising anyone else to either. But I am saying if a woman has a sparkling personality, a heart of gold, loves God, intelligence, great conversation skills & crazy sex appeal, I'm not going to skip over her just because she's dark skinned & not light skinned. Or has a slightly above average figure & not a ::in my Frank Ocean voice:: stripper booty & a rack like woooooow.

There is nothing wrong with being picky, young sirs. We are fly, young gentlemen building ourselves into better people & better men. & that alone makes us valuable & deserving of having a selective choice about who we give our affections to. However, if you're going to be picky, be picky about the right things. It might be too soon for you to think long term, but an ass shrinks (or slumps), boobs sag, & looks fade. Sometimes much sooner than you expect. I always say that looks are the audition but its what's on the inside that gets you the role. If you're going to be picky, be picky about her personality, her smarts, her spirituality (if that's important to you) & other things on the inside that will ALWAYS be there. Don't pass up your perfect gift over some wrapping paper.

So ask yourself: WHAT'S YOUR TYPE? -Donny